I can sense there are women and children, and there are animals here; who has commanded all of them to come to the battle? Why is it that I can hear the babies crying, the goats bleating, and the mules braying? Why have you brought the entire civilization of Thaqif here?
Brought to the battlefield, blind and elderly, so the army could receive his blessing and wisdom; asked this of the newly elected chieftain Malik ibn Awf when he sensed the presence of the tribe's women, children, and livestock.
I have brought them because I want every man to have his family and property behind him so that he fights the best fight possible.
Your women, children, and goats won't help you win the war: a man who will lose is not going to win merely because his family is behind him. Rather, winning requires men with swords. They have done the right thing, [the subtribes who stayed away]. Had this truly been a day of honor and glory, these people would never have abandoned this plain that you are in. I advise you as well to go back, O Malik, rather than fight. And if you are not going to listen to me, at least take the precious eggs of Thaqif (the women, children, and property) and bring them back to the fortress, for their presence in this battle will not help you. If you win, you will go back and enjoy their company; if you lose, at least they will be safe back home.
Also asked after particular subtribes known for warfare and intelligence, and was told they had refused to come, confirming to him that those subtribes had judged Malik's plan unwise.
You have lost the plot. You don't understand what's going on. Just go back to your old people's home and leave the battle to us.
Wallahi, if you don't listen to me, in front of you I will take my sword and kill myself!
Said to his own people when he saw them wavering, weighing whether to heed Durayd's counsel to send their families back to safety.